What’s Your Preference?

Over and over with clients, I encounter their belief, that they are the only ones who struggle with accepting and assimilating their personality types.

Using Eric Berne’s Process Model it is easy to visually self-diagnose your preferred way of being. Finding your place on the axis between introvert and extrovert, active and ‘passive’ (by which it is meant that this individual is more trusting of spirit to provide and of abundance and meditation), is a visual and intuitive exercise. 
What is important then is to do the things we need in order to sustain ourselves. Extroverts source their energy and inspiration from others outside of themselves. Introverts need to withdraw to regenerate. Active types need to make things happen, whilst more passive individuals can stand back and trust that it will come about due a combination of things, not only their own input.
We are all so very different in our preference. 
Whilst we can all move around this TA matrix according to circumstances, it is a rare person who can comfortably and consistently inhabit all four quadrants.
We must thus not only identify our preferred place in the matrix but also then use this information to identify our ‘Drivers’ and our needs regarding sustaining our personal and professional worlds,
What’s your preferred way of being and what do you need to do in order to be your best professional self?

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