What To Do With A Worry.

So, you have a worry…. Now, what to do with it? It took me 26 years to work out what to do with my worries. As an introverted child in a tense household, the last thing I would ever do is tell anyone of my fear.As a contorted teenager, I converted my worries like gems, wrapping them in silken layers of shame and confusion.

As a young woman, at university and in my first job, I never shared my concerns because I felt too inadequate that I didn’t know how to solve them … Ironic really because had I had the answers, I would not have had the concerns….

Then came a life threatening moment, or rather a series of them, and in order to survive I had to get over myself and admit, much to my chagrin, that I was well and truly stuck…

And, for the last decade or so, this is what I have done. I have had to find the humility to be open over, and over, and over again…

And do you know what, it does get easier. And do you know what? The rewards for the risk taking and the courage are phenomenal.

To this day, when I have a worry, I still believe I am the only one in the world that has ever felt this way.

Yet, over and over and over again, when I share it with someone I trust, I am proven wrong……

Others have trodden this path before. Others forgive and accept me with all my imperfections. Others love me until I find my way……

Blessed are my friends and colleagues! 

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