Openness, Honesty and Willingness!

Is what it takes to make the coaching relationship potent. The joyous part of this coaching is seeing this amazing process work over and over again. Whatever the focus of the piece of work we contact to do, be it career coaching, be it health, relationship, life or finances, there is a tipping point where […]

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Practising Discipline:

What if you could take charge of your brain instead of it taking control of you? What if we used our brains in service of our hearts, and not of our fears? From Eastern manta to NLP it is proven that when we raise our consciousness, when choose our thoughts, the effect on our minds, […]

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The Bliss of Giving & Receiving Supervision 

Honestly, I feel a foot taller after an hour with my supervisor. I see my clients leaving sessions with me, similarly uplifted. Good supervision meets so many needs on so many levels and I grow to love it! The celebration of sharing successes, the unpacking and unburdening of shame, the exploration of new techniques, the […]

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When The Black Dog Nips At Your Heels….

It’s taken me years to work out my solutions to feelings of depression. Now I know if I’m waking at 5am and anxious, I need to take some serious action and soon. I would never, ever dismiss the profoundly affecting nature of depression. I have however discovered that it is me and only me that […]

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Just Show Up!

That’s what I learned today. Whether you’re angry, lonely, frightened, despairing, or exhausted, if it’s in service of your passion and your purpose, show up! You have no idea of the outcome, for this is not your responsibility. What we can be almost certain of is that nothing will shift if we don’t do our […]

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Quitting Resisting

What if we could peel back the layers and reach that core place within us, that which is always aligned with what is good for the world, and also aligned with that which is good for ourselves. What if we could risk touching our vulnerability, the place where our hearts open, synchronicity surfaces and we […]

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The Benefits of Envy

it wasn’t until I was in my early 30’s the I began to recognise that to be envious has a purpose. As a child I had held the message that ‘envy was a sin’ and I am not even from a religious background. This message permeates all layers of our society & culture. It thus […]

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You Do Not Know What You Do Not Know …

When clients approach me, they often do not know what they do not know. What these individuals do know is that something doesn’t feel or look right in their professional worlds. That might be something as startling as a redundancy, or as subtle as a sense that things aren’t lining up. The moment I love […]

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“Self employed and loving it!”

……Is the Facebook status of a colleague of mine. I have to say that I concur. I never envisioned being my own boss, but I suppose it was inevitable given my intolerance of systems that do not work and my level of impatience. when I desire change I desire it now and only a small […]

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Don’t Ask Don’t Get?

I am unsure if this is a gender difference, although in Linda Babcock’s book “why women don’t ask’ I am certainly sure she would name it as such, but whilst I was swimming this morning I noticed an interesting shift in me. As a fairly proficient and certainly a keen swimmer, I realised that I […]

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