I absolutely love it when a client comes to a session saying ‘I did all my homework’. This is not in service of my big fat ego, it is in service of my client beginning to reap the rewards they truly deserve There are many things that prevent us humans from taking the actions, on […]
If you don’t ask you don’t get. I’m sure I keep saying this but perhaps it also serves as an affirmation to myself! Are you familiar with that drop in your belly before you ask for something you really want? Do you too look at your list of tasks for the day, and find you […]
Starting Anew Is a Frightening Thing. Here’s how to have some faith. When you have a passion for something then it is authentic. When something is authentic people ‘get’ that authenticity. It doesn’t matter if you communicate by email or smoke signals, in person or by pigeon, the person on the receiving end of your communication […]
Change is not difficult, transition is the challenge. The most difficult thing about change is rarely the change itself. The real difficulties lie much deeper in the soil this. The first difficulty is feeling the need for change at all. Usually it is either extreme boredom or discomfort that leads us to even consider change, […]
What amazes me when working with clients is how very blind they can be regarding owning their skills, capabilities and general brilliances. This is not confined to any particular gender or business sector, payscale or seniority, people are just pretty blind to depth and breadth of talent that they bring to their roles, their own […]
Every time I work with a client, We work in a different way. Even if we are using a technique I have used many a time before, even on a subject that appears similar, The process we design together will be entirely unique. Working with a client today we noticed that we were not doing […]
The power of walking alongside, and I mean physically really walking, is phenomenal. A majority of the coaching sessions I provide are static. Sitting across from the client, albeit with a beautiful view, we metaphorically journey together. However sometimes it’s much more effective to travel alongside each other in real time. When I client learned […]
It is all too easy to compare your inside with other people’s outside and come off much the worse for doing so. Because you live inside yourself, you see all the vulnerabilities and fears and flaws. We are also not best equipped to see our own skills and talents somehow. When we look at other’s […]
I had been invited to write some content for a fellow practitioner’s website. Monday I sat down and wrote the body of it. Then I set it aside for three days, firstly due to other commitments but also to let it settle. In the past I have perhaps been so keen to tick it off […]
When you are clear of your core purpose in your career, when you know why you are doing what you are doing, then business will generate itself. As someone who is ‘active’ I always assumed that I would need to ‘make marketing happen’. What I am seeing is almost the opposite. Because when an […]